Guest post by "Miss Kara" I had a submissive that you would never know was MTF from looking at her, given how little she dressed 'like a girl.' Hoodies, jeans, a beanie, and a mop of curly blond hair. My adorable little FPS gamer girl I worry about her, though I try not to. No matter who you are, if you're going to break gender stereotypes you can always expect some backlash.