Guest post by "Marissa" When I was 15 I aggressively distanced myself from anything pink, without ever really knowing why I'd do such a thing; didn't make any sense even then. It was two years later that I first met another trans person and heard that I could be something other than an intelligent boy. I was a full-on goth at that point though, and goths around here are almost entirely indifferent to gender. Wear whatever, do whatever, as long as you make it look good.