Guest post by "Allie" Meh @ "hard to get". I've never seen anything positive in being "coy" about what you want just because someone else wants it too. More like stupidity really. I get that society teaches people to shun and not respect "easy" women, but anyone who's not capable of rejecting that teaching - or worse still, doesn't see the problem with it - isn't worth anyone's time or emotional investment to begin with.