Guest post by "Amy!" Totally, Z. "Didja know" is just super not okay.
It robs you of your identity, it robs you of a true first impression. It sucks going from Amy the kind friend, Amy the pianist, Amy the poet, or simply just plain ol' Amy to...Amy the transsexual. It's a bummer. That is not my defining attribute, that is not *anyone's* defining attribute.