Guest post by "Allie" I'd forgotten Wendy didn't know Sarah was transitioned at school yet, so I thought she was wondering whether to out her as AMAB rather than as female, and my heart sank like a stone. As for what she's *actually* thinking about, I think ethically speaking the thing to do would be to forgo it for now and, if they see each other again in the future she should ask Sarah beforehand if she wants it brought up. But it was still a massive relief to read the comments and realise she wasn't thinking Sarah's teacher assumed she was AFAB and considering outing her as AMAB
